Walking, and things we’re doing (just fine) without

my walking bag

This was Patrick's, until his bike commutes demanded a bigger bag. Now it's mine, and I think we'll be getting chummy as I tote it around my many, many walks to run errands.

Let me get right to the list of the few things we are doing without, that are changing a lot about my daily habits (and how my brain works):

» Parking the car. Well, just my car (It’s still a little too cold for Patrick to ride his bike to work, which he’s anxious to do).

» No internet service to the house. That means no cable, too.

It’s just those two things, really, but it’s amazing how they change the landscape!

Walking, walking, walking

Our new home is within two miles of: our favorite coffee shop; a wonderful bakery; two grocery stores; the bank; the library; the entire downtown; the gym (if I decide to join … I’m contemplating an all-at-home scheme); a beer/homebrew shop; a brew-pub; a really good local bar/restaurant; a huge park (with running track!); any number of food and service businesses that we have yet to explore.

In other words, we are finally living in a space that does not require a car for our day-to-day. So it’s decided: I’m walking whenever I can.

WHAT NO INTERNET?!

Kinda sorta. We have an “unlimited” data plan for our smartphones … quotation marks because the limit is 5G apiece, after which point our connection speed drops. A lot.

What does it mean? It means that with that data plan, so long as we don’t go over our 5G (which is cumulative; it slowly fills up as we use it), we can use our phones as portable wi-fi hotspots.

Guess what? I used up my 5G about a week ago (damn you, Parks & Recreation!), Patrick used up his the other day, and our cycle doesn’t start again until the Jan. 24. Also, that slower connection speed is SO slow that my browser times out before it can load, essentially rendering the hotspot useless.

Lesson learned: streaming a lot of video is out of the question, and streaming any at all isn’t even advisable if we want to be able to do things like check our email and write blog entries.

Where it all comes together

Too bad about my internet-less home, right?

You know what? Not really. I haven’t watched ANY VIDEO (not even a three-minute anything) in a week. And I don’t miss it. Not a bit. Now, I would like to pick up Parks & Recreation where I left off. And we haven’t finished the second season of Breaking Bad yet. wanna.

But it can wait. All in good time. All in carefully parceled, purposeful, focused time.

And not being able to get on the internet on my computer? Problem solved: I have a library within twenty minutes’ walk of my house. And they have unlimited wireless for me to use. For the cost of a little exercise and absolutely no money.

Let me pile it on a little: Having lugged my (decidedly small and not really cumbersome) computer to the library, and knowing I can’t just spend the entire day here, I’m feeling less wander-y. No wasting time on random links and three-minute videos.

To re-iterate: this is where it all comes together …

These two simple limits have helped me carve more meaningful chunks of time. Yes, I still occasionally find myself idle (less often, because of all the walking). But now I’m more likely to spend that idle time reading something (really reading it), or choosing to observe the moment in appreciation (you would not believe how corny I am in real life; really, truly corny — because I love how light breaks through a window, or to hear the out-of-season call of birds, or the way that dog sighs when she’s sleeping …).

And to think on the months ahead and how we’ll have to parse our internet-connectedness at home. I am grateful for the purpose it will require me to assign those moments.

Purpose, purpose, purpose. More of this, please.

  • Anonymous

    The changes in your life all seem to be pushing you in positive directions. That is due to your positive outlook, your open-mindedness, and the falling into place of the carefully formed puzzle pieces you’ve carved yourself these past several years.

    Have you ever heard a person say, “Imagine how much work could be done if we just didn’t have to sleep. How many more hours would be in a day!” Well, that’s essentially what you have now, without the technological distractions you mention in your blog post.

    Also, if you haven’t read “Siddhartha” in a while, you should definitely check it out from your local library. Actually, checking it out might not be necessary, since you could probably read it in a few hours if you had a day rather open for such an endeavor. Soaking in the true value of life’s small details isn’t corny, it’s engaged. Life IS small details. And most of them can be enriching if we only open our senses to them. It gladdens me to know you’re enjoying the details of your life, both large and small. :)

    • http://foodanddo.lindsaybeeson.com Lindsay Beeson

      Thank you, brother. This changes are just significant enough for me to wonder if they’re right or meaningful or *how* they’re those things. Encouragement like this is just the succor to help me keep moving along.

      (Also, we should use “succor” more. It sounds good.)

      And I haven’t read Siddhartha since it was assigned in … eighth grade? And now it’s on my library list …